Frequently Asked Questions(FAQ)
How did you get started?
Lasting Memories by Tom LLC started with wedding officiant services and grew naturally through trust and word-of-mouth.
As clients asked for additional support — from photography to notarization to safety training — the business expanded carefully while staying rooted in the same calm, people-first approach.
Every service we offer today exists because a real need showed up — and we chose to meet it with care.
What services do you offer?
We provide professional, people-centered services across Connecticut, including:
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Wedding officiant & ministerial services
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Photography & behind-the-scenes coverage
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Mobile notary services
- Health & safety training (CPR, First Aid, AED) through Lasting Impact Health & Safety Training
AED inspection & readiness servicesAll services are delivered with the same calm, respectful, and detail-oriented approach — because trust matters.
Where are you located, and what areas do you serve?
We are based in Connecticut and offer mobile, on-location services statewide, depending on the service.
Whether we’re officiating a wedding, notarizing documents, conducting CPR/AED training, or inspecting an AED — we come to you.
Are your services licensed, certified, and insured?
Yes. We maintain all required credentials, certifications, and compliance standards applicable to each service we provide in Connecticut.
This includes:
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Legally recognized ministerial authority
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State-compliant mobile notary services
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Certified CPR, First Aid, and AED instruction
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Professional AED inspection protocols
Credentials are always available upon request.
What makes your business different?
Clients often tell us they feel:
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Calmer after speaking with us
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Fully informed instead of rushed
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Supported rather than processed
We believe meaningful services deserve patience, clarity, and presence — whether it’s a wedding, a safety class, or an important document.
How do wedding officiant services work?
Our wedding officiant services are designed to feel grounded, personal, and stress-free.
We support couples with:
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Ceremony structure and flow
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Custom or traditional vows
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Connecticut marriage license guidance
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Rehearsals (if requested)
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Calm, confident day-of presence
Our goal is for you to feel present — not overwhelmed.
What if we don’t like being the center of attention?
Many couples feel this way — and that’s completely okay.
We create ceremonies that feel natural, grounded, and genuine, never performative or overwhelming. Our role is to gently guide the moment so you can stay focused on each other, not on an audience.
What if we’re feeling anxious or overwhelmed on the wedding day?
That’s very common — and you’re not alone.
We approach every ceremony with calm presence and thoughtful preparation, helping create a steady, reassuring environment so you can slow down, breathe, and be present in the moment.
How do you help set the tone on the wedding day?
We arrive prepared, calm, and attentive — not rushed or distracted.
Our focus is on creating a steady, respectful presence so the ceremony unfolds smoothly and feels meaningful, grounded, and unhurried.
Our goal is simple: to be a calm, steady presence when it matters most.
Do you help with writing wedding vows?
Yes. I offer Vow Writing & Coaching Support to help you organize your thoughts, refine your words, and feel confident expressing what you want to say. Whether you’re starting from a blank page or polishing existing vows, guidance is calm, supportive, and focused on keeping your voice authentic.
This service may be booked on its own or added to any wedding ceremony package.
Do you write vows for couples?
I don’t write vows for couples. Instead, I provide guidance, structure, and thoughtful feedback so your vows reflect your relationship naturally — without sounding scripted or impersonal.
Can you provide officiant and photography services together?
Yes. We offer thoughtfully coordinated options that may include:
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Ceremony officiation
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Behind-the-scenes photography
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Emotional and candid moment coverage
Roles are clearly defined ahead of time so your ceremony remains smooth, focused, and meaningful.
What types of photography do you offer?
Our photography focuses on authentic moments and emotional connection, including:
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Wedding-day storytelling
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Behind-the-scenes coverage
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Quiet, meaningful interactions
Our approach is calm and observant — never intrusive.
How does behind-the-scenes coverage work alongside photography?
Behind-the-scenes coverage is offered as a photography add-on and runs simultaneously. While Tom focuses on photography, Danielle captures candid moments and details unfolding around the day, ensuring a fuller story without distraction or overlap.
How do mobile notary services work?
We handle:
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Identity verification
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Proper notarization procedures
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Clear explanation of each step
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Travel to homes, offices, hospitals, or agreed locations
We ensure documents are notarized correctly and respectfully.
What health & safety training do you provide?
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CPR certification
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First Aid training
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AED training
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On-site workplace and group instruction
Training sessions are practical, calm, and confidence-building — designed to prepare people, not overwhelm them.
What is included in AED inspection & readiness services?
Inspections may include:
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Physical device checks
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Pad and battery status review
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Expiration tracking
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Readiness documentation
The goal is simple: peace of mind that your AED will work when it’s needed most.
Do you offer same-day or emergency services?
Yes — when possible, we do our best to support same-day and urgent requests across our services.
This may include:
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Same-day weddings or elopements
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Emergency mobile notarizations
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Time-sensitive health & safety training
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Other last-minute support needs
Availability is always confirmed before booking so we can ensure the level of care and attention every service deserves.
Same-day or emergency fees may apply and vary by service.
These fees help account for short-notice scheduling, preparation, and travel, and are always discussed openly and approved in advance — no surprises.
How does pricing work?
Pricing varies by service and is clearly disclosed upfront.
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Weddings and photography are quoted based on coverage and customization
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Notary fees follow Connecticut state-regulated rates, plus disclosed mobile fees
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Training and AED services are based on group size and scope
No surprise charges — ever.
How do I book a service or ask a question?
Booking is simple and personal.
You can:
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Submit an inquiry through our website
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Contact us by phone or email
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Ask questions before committing
There’s never pressure — just clear communication.
What types of clients do you work with?
We proudly serve:
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Couples and families
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Individuals
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Small businesses and organizations
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Healthcare, education, and community groups
Every client receives the same level of care and respect.
Community, Inclusion & Care
Do you work with nonprofit organizations and community organizations?
Yes. Supporting nonprofits, community organizations, and mission-driven groups is an important part of what we do. We are honored to work alongside organizations that serve, uplift, and care for others.
Whenever possible, we offer nonprofit-friendly pricing, flexible scheduling, and collaborative planning to help services remain accessible and impactful.
Do you offer nonprofit or community-based discounts?
We may offer discounted or adjusted pricing for qualified nonprofit organizations, churches, and community programs, depending on the service and scope of work.
Please reach out to discuss your organization’s needs — we’re always happy to explore solutions that align with your mission while maintaining the quality and care of our services.
Are your services inclusive and welcoming to all communities?
Yes — inclusivity, dignity, and respect are core values of our work.
We proudly serve individuals and organizations of all backgrounds, identities, beliefs, and family structures.
Our approach is affirming, judgment-free, and centered on creating safe, supportive experiences for everyone we work with.
Are you LGBTQ+ affirming?
Yes — fully and genuinely.
We proudly provide affirming, inclusive services for LGBTQ+ individuals, couples, families, and organizations.
You will always be met with respect, care, and understanding — without assumptions, judgment, or the need to explain yourself.
Do you officiate LGBTQ+ weddings, elopements, and commitment ceremonies?
Absolutely. We joyfully officiate LGBTQ+ weddings, elopements, vow renewals, and commitment ceremonies.
Every ceremony is personalized, affirming, and crafted to reflect your love, identity, and values — whether secular, spiritual, faith-based, or non-religious.
Can we request inclusive or gender-affirming language?
Yes — always.
We intentionally use inclusive, gender-affirming language and are happy to honor your preferred names, pronouns, and ceremony wording.
Your comfort and authenticity matter, and we work closely with you to ensure everything feels aligned and respectful.
Do you work with LGBTQ+ nonprofits or community organizations?
Yes. We proudly support LGBTQ+ nonprofits, advocacy groups, and community organizations through training, safety services, notarization, and event support.
Our goal is to serve with professionalism, compassion, and a deep respect for the communities you represent.
What if I’m nervous or unsure about reaching out?
That’s completely normal.
Our role is to help you feel:
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Heard
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Supported
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Confident in your next step
Whether you’re planning a wedding or handling something time-sensitive, we meet you where you are.
What if we’re nervous about choosing the right provider?
That’s completely understandable.
We believe trust is built through openness, care, and communication.
We’re always happy to answer questions, discuss your needs, and make sure you feel safe, supported, and confident before moving forward.
How involved are you before the ceremony?
We’re intentionally involved well before the ceremony takes place.
From planning conversations to gentle guidance on timing, flow, and expectations, our goal is to help you feel prepared and supported — so the ceremony itself feels smooth, unrushed, and grounded.
What is The Calm Presence Promise™?
The Calm Presence Promise™ is our commitment to showing up prepared, steady, and fully present. It guides how we support clients across all services — creating an environment where people feel grounded, respected, and at ease.
What is The Lasting Memories Promise™?
The Lasting Memories Promise™ reflects our dedication to creating meaningful, thoughtfully guided experiences that remain clear and valued long after the moment has passed.
How does the Calm Presence Promise™ affect your working style?
It means we work attentively and without unnecessary disruption, allowing moments — whether ceremonial, administrative, or instructional — to unfold naturally while maintaining professionalism and focus.
Who owns The Calm Presence Promise™ and The Lasting Memories Promise™?
Both The Calm Presence Promise™ and The Lasting Memories Promise™ are proprietary brand elements of Lasting Memories by Tom LLC.
We believe everyone deserves to feel safe, respected, and celebrated — whether you’re planning a wedding, serving your community, or building something meaningful together. It’s an honor to support nonprofits and the LGBTQ+ community with care, integrity, and heart.

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